The Conceit

A Reader's Digest

"You win only if you aren't afraid to lose"-Rocky Aoki
The metrics to measure the human intelligence and thought process from IQ, EQ and SQ don't set the individual the success expected at times. The success we achieve isn't proportional to the results given by these techniques. So, how much the success and failures depend on the IQ and EQ, certainly to an extent, but, the real answer to overcome the failures are not decided by these techniques.

The individual who had high or acceptable scores by these techniques do struggle to cope up with failures. Failures are everybody's companion at some time. The credit success gets doesn't always get the pat for the failures. Let's state many reasons to the failures, but the actual effort lies in learning smartly the core meaning of analysis and assessment, rather the web of the things that surround these results. We aren't prepared to understand and digest the failures but we are prone to get depressed or de motivated and surrenders to the strength of the situations.

Failures are bound to come, that should not set us back and undermine our efforts or strength. The failures we come across are an exercise to the ability of our think-tank and an opportunity to redeem one self to move forward.

The solutions don't come so easily at times even after greater efforts were put in. Apart from our typical ways we follow on these occasions, also needs a self-centric assessment on issues like our habits for food, smoking, alcohol and ways we relax with sports or Indoor Games, with under doing or over doing of sleep hours, time spending with family and our own value system need a strategize to come out with flying colours.

Make sure we will not succumb to the pressure and the ill effects of the failures and continue the process of further efforts can always be an active benchmark of human race and our society.

Better 'be calm', sense prevails, the best solutions you find. The practice needs a change in staregy, the performance needs reflection of expectations and to make progress needs consistency.

--SYNERGI
practice | perform | progress